21st Birthday Gifts for Her

21st birthday gifts for her

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There are so many excellent 21st birthday gifts for her to choose from! I have found the best 21st birthday gift ideas to help you make your decision a little easier. And there are also a few extra special 21st birthday gift ideas for daughter in there as well!

21st Birthday Gift Ideas

Typically, you would get the girl some sort of acholic based gift. As the age 21 is the legal drink age in the US. However, if that is not something the young adult is into, any typical birthday gift would also be appropriate. 

There are so many great gift ideas found on this blog post. Take a peek and you are sure to find something that she will love!

If you are wanting to skip the alcohol and get something heartfelt for your daughter, an engraved keepsake would be my go to gift. 

For a 21st birthday, anywhere from $20-$75 would be an appropriate gift amount. Pair the money of gift with a nice card and a candy bar and you have the perfect 21st birthday gifts for her. 

My Favorite 21st Birthday Gift for Her

Alcohol Themed Gifts

21st birthday gifts for her

This 21-liquor bottle holder is a fun way to give mini alcohol bottles. The bottles easily pop into the stand and its a good way to try out a variety of alcoholic beverages. 

Add a custom photo of the birthday girl to a wine label. It looks stunning and is a sweet gift when added to your favorite wine. 

If the birthday girl is planning on hitting the town. Then get her a “buy the birthday girl a drink” pin! With the qr code people can send her money via Venmo and she can buy herself a few drinks. 

The day after may not be as fun, so she will need this hangover survival kit. Stock up this pouch with some of your favorite hangover survival products for the perfect day after gift. 

Say goodbye to fake IDs with a fun 21st birthday card for her. Then take her out on the town to celebrate her big day. 


21st birthday gifts for her

Don’t let the birthday girl drink out of any plain old wine glass. She needs a hand painted wine glass just for her! Everyone will compliment her on her fun drinkware. 

Everything tastes better out of sparkly glass. These personalized glitter wine and shot glasses make fun 21st birthday gifts for her. Perfect for both nights in and a night out of the town.  It makes the perfect 21st birthday gift ideas for daughter.

This stunning engraved wine glass comes in a beautiful gift box and is all ready to gift to the lucky birthday girl. 

This beautiful hand painted tumbler can be customized by choosing hair color, skin tone and other fun customizations, to fit the birthday girl’s personality.


These stunning handmade earrings are very light weight and ready for all day wear. They also look beautiful in photos, so are perfect for a 21st birthday photoshoot.

Make their 21st birthday special by buying the birthday girl something she can wear all year long. This necklace will remind her of all the memories she has made in the past 21 years of her life. 

Two linking hearts and the special message let the birthday girl know she can withstand whatever the coming years have to offer her. 

A simple yet stunning bracelet has one bead for every year of the birthday girl’s life. This is one of my favorite 21st birthday gift ideas. 

Clothing & Hats

21st birthday gifts for her

Let the birthday girl shine with a hat with over 1000 stunning rhinestones! And the best part it is one of the budget friendly 21st birthday gifts for her.

Let the world know that she is finally legal, with a fun hoodie! She is able to wear it out for the entire birthday year.

Say hello to 21 with a leopard themed shirt. There are a variety of shirt and text colors to choose from.

Celebrate with some colorful birthday socks for her! They are the perfect gift for the girl who loves crazy socks. 


21st birthday gifts for her

A penny with the year of the birthday girl’s birth is attached to a 21 charm makes the perfect 21st birthday gifts for her. 

A sentiment to all the years that have passed and are yet to come; this plaque is a reminder of all the good memories in her life. 

21 candles on this trinket dish are presented for each year of her precious life. 

Gift Baskets

So many sweet gifts are included in this rose gold gift box. She will receive a tumbler, candle, necklace and so much more!

Bring a smile to her face with a cute succulent and a personalized tumbler, and a beautiful candle. 

This over-the-top gift box has everything she needs to make her 21st birthday one to never forget. She will have a night of relaxation after spending a night out on the town. 

Food & Treats

21st birthday gifts for her

For the girl who has everything, give the gift of pink and gold 21st birthday sugar cookies. She may even share a delicious cookie with you!

The perfect gift for any occasion is chocolate! The delicious chocolate covered cookies are sure to please the birthday girl.

All the favorite candies from her childhood will make the birthday girl and all her friends very happy, as they share the treats in this gift box. 


Have her favorite song made into a soundwave print. It is a very unique and stunning gift that everyone will love. 

Make her smile with this explosion box. When the box is opened butterflies will fly out for the best surprise. 

Let everyone leave her a fun message in this birthday girl guest book. It can be given as a gift or left out on the table at a birthday party. 

Household Items

21st birthday gift ideas for daughter

Who doesn’t need an engraved set of silverware to eat with on their special day?

This snuggly blanket is filled with memories from the year the birthday girl was born. Everyone will get a kick out of all the memories on the blanket. 

This lavender hand poured candle can be enjoyed on its own or make the birthday girl a gift basket with the candle as the focus. 


21st birthday gift ideas


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